The Sabine women, stolen by the Romans, settled the dispute between their fathers and the Romans

Heraclitus: Daring more war

Heraclitus is considered to be the first philosopher of the West at all. And even ancient Cynics regarded him as the first of theirs. Rightly so, as I shall show. Heraclitus sharply condemned Homer's pacifism, he demands that he should be expelled and beaten up.…
"Before you assist others, always put your oxygen mask on first."

“Before You Help Others, You Must First Help Yourself”

I come from a generation in which air travel was a luxury. On my first flight in a real commercial aircraft, I was already almost 40 years old. I was a little scared. When the stewardess explained the rules for emergencies, I listened attentively. Then…
jumping people in ecstatic

How to make death your best friend

This is the second part, which deals with the beautiful death. In the first part I showed that Epicurus, as often as he is quoted with his famous statement that death is none of our business, in truth does not free us from the fear…
Dying Every Day

Dying Every Day

Death is none of our business? -- You bet it is! Epicur wants us to do exactly what most people try to do anyway: not to think about death. It wouldn't really be any of our business. Cynics follow the exact opposite path. We want…
The godess isis, louvre, Paris

Allahu akbar: God is even greater

The last man has not only killed God. He makes everything small, according to Nietzsche in Zarathustra. He himself becomes homo economicus, a screw, in the mechanistic understanding since the Enlightenment. The last strong countermovement against this dehumanization of humankind, which was triggered by the…
Novalis was a real Romantic. The entrepreneur, philosopher and poet had nothing to do with the kitschy image we associate with Romanticism today. And he was a cynic. Real romantics are real cynics

Real romantics are real cynics

Romanticism has little to do with what most people imagine it to be today. Early Romanticism in particular was anything but " enthusiastic" and dreamy. "Gushers" were, on the contrary, even an enemy for the Romantics. Likewise, the Romantics did not want to return to…
Live is to discriminate

Live is to discriminate

As a result of Christian and post-Christian slave morality (Nietzsche) and socialist dreams, but also as a result of the domination interests of the states, egalitarianism is currently being propagated on an unprecedented scale. Discriminate, a neutral term until the 19th century, first experienced a…
a letter with a "refused" stamp

Understand the difference between acceptance and approval

One of the requirements of the client-centered approach of Carl Rogers is to accept messages from the client or the person you are talking to at all costs. Now, however, in everyday life, both in the U.S., as far as I know, but at least…
Carl Rogers

Carl Rogers: Parrhesia in psychotherapy.

For me, Carl Rogers is one of the most important people of the 20th century, along with Paul Goodman. And indeed Carl Rogers is considered the most influential psychotherapist, even ahead of Sigmund Freud. His psychotherapy concept is essentially based on parrhersia. His insights can…
Refuse self-improvement. So you can get better.

Refuse self-improvement. So you can get better.

If you want to practice the virtue of parrhesia on your own without a fascilitator, the first step, of course, is to learn to listen to yourself acceptingly and to learn to overcome scruples. It's not about training skills that will make you a better…